Fate, Destiny, and Coincidence

I asked myself yesterday a lot of questions. I wanted to post about that and answer each question individually. Sharing all my thoughts and feelings. However, I ended up writing them in a piece of paper and throwing it away.

My brain and my heart are always at war. I keep blaming my unbalanced emotions on my mistakes and past events. I just can’t move on.

I can share a couple of the questions I asked myself: Was it fate and destiny or was it just a coincidence?

If it was not meant to be, why God put them on my way?

I believe that every human I ever met teached me something.

Every human I ever loved and broke my heart, teached me about depth and wisdom and how to become stronger and take my power back in ways I never imagined possible.

The only one who was not ready to understand this, was myself, my own lack of consciousness influenced by the level of collective programming from family, and society.

Someone once told me, “Don’t dwell on the fact that the connection ends. Celebrate the fact that the connection happened in the first place.”

Yes, true, but…I just can’t move on.

I do totally believe in fate. What is meant for me will happen, no matter what.

But I as any other human, I don’t get to know my fate. I can’t read my next chapters before it’s occurrence.

I do believe in signals that’s thrown in my way to give me hints about someone or something. Each signal might has a variable explanations, so it depends on what perspective I will see it from, and I never know how close to my real fate is that.

If I have a piece of advice to give it to myself and you, don’t ignore any emotional or logical signal, don’t act upon it directly but just keep it in your mind.

Yes what is meant to happen to me and you (readers) will happen, but we have to give it a reason to allow it to happen. For example, if it’s meant for us to be rich, then we would have to work for it first . Don’t expect to find a treasure box on the way home!

As much as I believe in fate and destiny, I do believe that everyone will get what they deserve and what they worked for. If you love someone, whether a friend or more, do effort to let them stay, but know when to stop. It’s when you’re watering a flower with a broken pot.

Don’t look for love, look to love. The future will do the rest.

Yours truly,

Carolina Mom 💕